· Matthew 11:16–19
Jesus describes people who dismiss John for being too austere and dismiss Jesus for sharing meals. When every difference becomes a reason to reject someone, the standard may be protecting our preference rather than seeking truth. Notice one person or idea you have criticised in opposite ways. Name the real concern, check whether it is fair and leave room for evidence that could change your mind.
A question to sit with
Where have I made approval impossible by changing the standard?
One small step
Write down the actual concern, test it against the facts and revise your judgment if the evidence requires it.
Pray
God of wisdom, free me from unfair judgments. Give me honest standards, humility before evidence and a heart willing to recognise good fruit. Amen.
Original reflection and prayer. The Scripture reference is chosen for personal reflection and is not necessarily the day’s Mass reading.